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To think it’s strange my dad thinks 26 is late 20’s

76 replies

Whocareswherewego76 · 28/08/2021 10:29

Older ds turned 26 this week and df said to him. You’re up in your late 20’s. Not sure if it’s an age thing.

OP posts:
EBearhug · 28/08/2021 11:14

To me, x1-3 is early, x4-6 is mid and x7-9 is late. But 26 is definitely late rather than early, if you take either side of 25 as the mid point. And it doesn't really matter anyway.

godmum56 · 28/08/2021 11:16

OP I think you are hanging your post on the wrong issue. If your father is a nasty critical person would it make a difference if he described the age in a different way?

Lockdownbear · 28/08/2021 11:19

@animalmagic1984

21-23 is early twenties, 24-26 is mid twenties and 27-29 is late twenties. 3 years for each stage.
You missed 20! Is that not part of your 20s?
Zilla1 · 28/08/2021 11:27

Mathematically, my view of 20 - 24 is early twenties. 25 to 29 is late twenties. You might not like young, middle aged and old, OP as you might have a middle aged DC (0-25 young, 26-50 middle aged, 50+old).

maybelou · 28/08/2021 11:40

We call it late-mid Grin

For each set of three years you've got 'early-early' (21), 'mid-early' (22) and 'late-early' (23) then early-mid, mid-mid etc

We started saying it as a joke but it works quite nicely 😂

dworky · 28/08/2021 11:51

I'm with him, anything after 25 is late.

Whocareswherewego76 · 28/08/2021 11:53

26 middle aged that’s shocking Shock

OP posts:
Bluntness100 · 28/08/2021 11:55

I think maybe your sensitive to your sons progress and the context your father was discussing. Really whether it’s mid or late twenties is not the hill to die on. The issue is what was said, the impact of it, if it’s valid and if your son needs support.

SnottyLottie · 28/08/2021 11:57

In my mind it goes

20-23 = early twenties
24-26 = mid twenties
27-29 = late twenties

If you want to be pedantic, 26 is late mid twenties 😆

RogueV · 28/08/2021 11:58

I think it’s weird you’ve posted about this

Blinkingheckythump · 28/08/2021 11:58

@MrsRobbieHart

I think it’s weird you’d even care
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MyPatronusIsACat · 28/08/2021 12:02

@MrsRobbieHart

It's weird that you'd even care.

Why do people post this kind of remark on threads like this? It's so dismissive and rude. Hmm

Different people are bugged/bothered by different things, and no-one has the right to minimise how they feel about it...

MadameMinimes · 28/08/2021 12:05

@SnottyLottie Similar to mine except in my head

20-22 is early
23-26 is mid
27-29 is late

Otherwise the pattern is not symmetrical and my brain doesn’t like it. Grin

MyPatronusIsACat · 28/08/2021 12:06

@Zilla1

Mathematically, my view of 20 - 24 is early twenties. 25 to 29 is late twenties. You might not like young, middle aged and old, OP as you might have a middle aged DC (0-25 young, 26-50 middle aged, 50+old).
PMSL! Grin 25 is middle aged?! That would suggest the average lifespan is 50!
Bluntness100 · 28/08/2021 12:07

@RogueV

I think it’s weird you’ve posted about this
I think it’s deeper than semantics, as in if he’s late twenties the father has a valid point, but mid twenties and he doesn’t, th son is still young enough to be excused.
GreyhoundG1rl · 28/08/2021 12:08

26 is nowhere near the beginning of middle age 🙄
Nor is 50 classified as "old".

I assume that was posted by a very young teenager 😂

debbrianna · 28/08/2021 12:12

Round it up or round it down. 5 is the cut off point. He is right

CoronaPeroni · 28/08/2021 12:15

Yawn. Aibu is so BORING these days...

Pemba · 28/08/2021 12:28

Other threads are available....

DogFoodPie · 28/08/2021 12:54

Late 20s, absolutely ancient lol. Better start looking for a warden flat and a mobility scooter.

Deadringer · 28/08/2021 12:58

@animalmagic1984

21-23 is early twenties, 24-26 is mid twenties and 27-29 is late twenties. 3 years for each stage.
Exactly what i would think. Someone saying its late 20s wouldn't bother me, though at 56, telling me i am late 50s might!
Od130990 · 13/09/2021 18:05

I'd say 26 is mid 20's
21,22,23 early 20's
24,25,26 mid 20's
27,28,29 late 20's
26 is 4 years off 30

Buggritbuggrit · 14/09/2021 00:25

@Zilla1 Did you just refer to 26 as middle aged? I’ve been on Mumsnet for a while and that might be the maddest thing I’ve read. You’ve beat out some stiff competition!

PrincessNutella · 14/09/2021 01:20

He is right

NumberTheory · 14/09/2021 01:27

I think there's overlap.

20 thru 24 is early 20s

23 thru 27 is mid 20s

26 thru 29 (and occasionally the first half of 30 Wink) is late 20s

Early/mid/late - these kinds of phrases are supposed to be a bit fudgable.