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Tired of those assuming they know my dog better than me

35 replies

honehmooh · 27/08/2021 14:05

She's a chihuahua, who is fully grown, and not much bigger than a teacup. Earlier this year she needed an expensive operation for a condition called Luxating patella that she developed in her leg, that she could easily develop in the other, that was caused by an injury of walking/jumping too much. We have been instructed to make sure that she doesn't jump on/off things, doesn't use the stairs, and is only allowed a certain amount of excerise to try to prevent her from developing the condition again, which she covers in the house quite easily. We don't have a garden she can use.

She's a territorial dog who is scared of other dogs, and she could easily be stood on. She is small enough for a seagull or any other large bird to consider her as prey. Taking everything in to consideration, we'd like to still be able to go out, and for her to be able to enjoy and see the outdoors. We initially tried carrying her which wasn't practical and she was out in the open, kept trying to get out of my grasp to bark at other dogs. So we decided to buy her a pram.

We get judgemental looks when I take her out in a pram. Some have spoken about it in hearing distance, some have said things to our faces. They think it's as if we don't know what's best for our dog, as if we are incapable of making a reasonable decision, as if she is some sort of accessory to us. It's made us feel very uncomfortable going out.

AIBU to wish that sometimes people would just mind their own business.

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fallfallfall · 27/08/2021 15:33

Make up a little handicapped puppy sign. Put it on the pram.

sayanythingelse · 27/08/2021 15:34

Is it one of those dog prams or a baby pram? I see a fair few people with the dog prams, so I wouldn't think it strange.

There is a couple near us though that wheel their dog around in a child's pushchair. The first time toddler DD saw it she loudly exclaimed "HAHAHA WHAT'S THAT DOGGY DOING IN A PUSHCHAIR??" I didn't know whether to laugh or cry Grin

girlmom21 · 27/08/2021 15:42

@100percent21 yeah for 6 weeks post-surgery the caution is necessary.

For months, and then indefinitely, it's cruel.

StarryStarrySocks · 27/08/2021 15:56

@Balonzette

I'm sorry but I'd definitely laugh so much at a chihuahua being pushed along in a pram 😂😂😂😂😂 the idea of it even is making me laught
Me too! The only thing that would be funnier would be a chihuahua being carried off by a seagull. I would probably never stop laughing if I witnessed that! 😂
Furrydogmum · 27/08/2021 15:57

We bought our elderly Lab x a pram when her dementia worsened and she began losing strength, she was over 40kg in her prime - the pram is enormous (similar to a side by side twin pram)!! I didn't care, she got to come out on several big family tradition walks in the last 11months of her life - we lost her on Aug 12th 😢. The pram will be useful going forward for our other two large elderly girls and although I'm not looking forward to them getting to that stage, I am glad we'll still be able to take them out with us. Bugger what anyone else thinks!!

vampirethriller · 27/08/2021 16:01

My dog was born deaf. When I tell people the usual reaction is Are you sure?
Well yes. I live with her.
Then they'll click their fingers or whistle to test it! Makes me so angry.

ZaraCarmichaelshighheels · 27/08/2021 16:02

My 7lb dog has arthritis in her back legs and can’t walk very far, when we go on a long walk she goes in my back pack especially designed for carrying a dog, she loves it.

ididitsocanyou · 27/08/2021 16:09

Ppl love to put their two pennies in! I have a lovely, Friendly, fun dog and it’s difficult to find any quirks about her whatsoever. She is clever: when she meets new people and wants to say hello she goes full on submissive, grovelling and bowing her head whilst approaching and then rolls over on their feet to be petted. It’s very positive and endearing behaviour. Yet some ppl are like ‘oh why is she so nervous’ ‘has she been traumatised’ etc and I’m like Christ sake if she was nervous she’d run away or bite your hand off. She’s showing you respect and saying hello. What more do you want? Seriously people like to try and be the expert on everything.

Perturbdisturb · 27/08/2021 16:48

I saw a dog in a pram recently, and the owners had out a sign on the front saying 'dog too old to walk' which must have saved them a hell of a lot of bother from strangers

Perturbdisturb · 27/08/2021 16:49

Sorry 'put'

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