[quote Fancymice]@knittingaddict I know there are some people these days that fritter money and consequently can't buy a house, but there are others, like me & my partner, who live frugally and still can't afford a house. Most of our furniture is second hand, all appliances we've had to buy are the cheapest we can get, we never go abroad and have had one holiday in the past three years, we don't drink at all apart from Xmas, we don't smoke, we eat cheap food (everything from scratch, lentils featuring heavily) and yet home ownership is not possible. We also both have a second part time job. The sheer amount we pay in rent takes a huge chunk of money, and makes it very hard to save. In contrast, my dad at my age has a mortgage on his own for a small flat in the south east and then met my mum and they were able to move in a few years into a 3 bed semi in the south West. My dad worked in a factory and my mum was a nurse, in a comparable job skill levels to me and dp now. They had to live frugally because of interest rates, but at least they had the opportunity to be property owners despite being working class. Now in their 60s they have paid off the mortgage. I feel like for my generation, even if we do everything right on paper and go to university and work hard it's still not enough to accomplish having a decent standard of living owning your own home. I know it's anecdotal, but personally, I feel like gen x and millenials have been dealt a bad hand.
I'm not saying I agree with the OPs novel ideas for wealth redistribution, but it gets very tiresome sometimes the trope that we're just not trying hard enough.[/quote]
I appreciate all that. My daughter has just bought her first home with her partner. It would have taken her longer if we hadn't been in a position to gift them some money.
What I was demonstrating was that we had to work for our step onto the property ladder too. It wasn't handed it to us on a plate, which is what people like the op always seem to think happened. We've lived through the 15% plus interests rates and negative equity and many didn't keep the houses they had worked so hard for.
I just hate threads like this which pitch one generation against another. We had no help from our parents to buy our own homes, but we have helped our children to do so. We aren't evil people and yet these threads keep coming.