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To not want to break my neck at his flat!

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Sparklfairy · 23/08/2021 09:46

First World problem and generally lighthearted but a real possibility it could happen.

I've been on a few dates with someone. After a meal we went to hang out at his flat. His flat has an unusual layout where the stairs up to it are in the middle of the actual flat, with half the rooms on each side iyswim. Theres no door or gate at the top of the steep stairs, the entrance door is at the bottom.

Because its so unusual I forgot and a few times over the course of the evening I came inches from falling down them. For context I had a head injury which causes vertigo, so I have to kind of stop and collect myself before going down escalators etc. I've also realised I kind of round door frames really closely, which led to the close calls as it was like I was expecting a floor and there wasn't one Grin

Short of remembering to sidle along the edge of the opposite wall every time I need a piss, what can I do? I'm not asking someone I barely know to put in a baby gate or anything like that obviously, but they really are steep with not much landing (!) space at the bottom, so flinging yourself down them at speed would definitely be some broken bones or worse.

OP posts:
Sparklfairy · 23/08/2021 10:43

Yeah @NautaOcts I feel rather sick just looking at that Grin

I did think of that @HeddaGarbled but mine is a tiny messy studio and his is a spacious one bed. I don't even have a table to eat on here, I eat on my bed.

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SimonedeBeauvoirscat · 23/08/2021 12:19

Ah ok I see - that pic makes it clear. Erm I have nothing useful to suggest which hasn’t already been said though! Sorry. Stair gate seems the only way.

LynetteScavo · 23/08/2021 22:16

Well obviously you need to move in together, and get yourselves a bungalow. Job done.

Kneesaregood · 23/08/2021 22:57

We don't have the same layout, but a very steep staircase and narrow landing. We bought some motion detector strip led lights (from Amazon or similar) they're battery powered so you don't need a plug. We put them on the side of the door frame next to the stairs, so if you go near them it lights up - handy in the dark to see where you're going, but they also help focus you on the change of boundary, if that makes sense.

SeoultoSeoul · 24/08/2021 15:02

I have a similar layout upstairs and worry when my 87year old Mum comes to stay. We leave a light on the landing and put a pressure fitting stairs gate up, just to deter her/act as a visual cue.
We fit the gate higher up than it would be for a toddler as she isn't likely to crawl under it!

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