New to this but I’m kind of at the end of my tether. I’ve been with my partner for around 4 years, I have kids from previous relationship and things have been up and down. The problem is he seems to dictate what I should and shouldn’t be upset about, with litterally anything I bring up to him that bothers me, with him or anything else in general I feel he minimises things and regularly calls me pathetic and gets quite heated. Recently I caught him online commenting on some models page, 2 of them and the comments were “sit on my face” and comments about how beautiful they were and he loves their bodies etc. Now I don’t bother about him looking at other women etc, I’m not that jealous but I think this was a step too far and quite disrespectful, especially when he doesn’t necessarily even say those things to me! I brought it up to him and immediately was laughed at, told I was a psycho etc and I was pathetic and embarrassing and pretty much was warned to never bring up such “petty issues”. I explained to him it felt disrespectful and that it made me feel like shit but it fell on death ears. This isn’t the first time we’ve had this issue and as I said before I feel like he gets to decide between right and wrong..I really want to stand my ground this time and the principle and quite frankly the sleaziness of it