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Giving my 3 year old a cup of tea every weekend..

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Mexicantahoe · 16/08/2021 22:30

My little girl is so great, eats everything, sleeps 7 to 7 uninterrupted.. Recently at the weekends she has shown an interest in my cup of tea, tea is the only thing I can manage first thing in the morning, I don't eat breakfast but at the weekend I sit down with her whilst she eats and I drink a cuppa.. I made her half a cup of weak tea last weekend and she absolutely loved it, I have mine with Oat milk so I don't add anything further to sweeten it.. Is it OK to give her 1 cup of reasonably weak tea at the weekends? Her teeth are also beautiful, straight and white with no plaque or cavities so I hope this isn't a slippery slope. It just was so lovely to see her really enjoying it. I'm pretty sure my first cup of tea was when I was very little too!
Is it ok or should I stop?

OP posts:
youdoyoutoday · 17/08/2021 15:36

My son used to drink tea at that age, though decaff as I had a tea craving during pregnancy so I got decaff in and never swapped back to regular

Mexicantahoe · 17/08/2021 15:40

I bought some redbush this morning.. I think DD will like it :) but I don't feel bad about giving her the occasional cup of milky weak tea. It makes her happy and it's causing her no harm.

OP posts:
bakingdemon · 17/08/2021 15:56

Not only is it fine but according to this report I saw it should be encouraged!

Giving my 3 year old a cup of tea every weekend..
KurtWilde · 17/08/2021 16:32

Mine all love a cuppa and have done since they were about 2. Hasn't done any of them any harm!

Me and my siblings were all given milky tea as toddlers too.

Hemingwaycat · 17/08/2021 16:35

I drank a lot of tea at this age, especially at my Gran’s house but I actually had 2 sugars in it every time! So bad looking back.

I didn’t give my own DC tea until they were about 7/8 I’d say and they rarely drink it. It’s the caffeine above all else.

DeflatedGinDrinker · 17/08/2021 16:38

I thought this was the norm? Op my teen has autism and only eats shit despite many tantrums of me trying to get him to eat a balanced diet. He eats no fruit or veg and will only drink pure orange juice or coke. He's 14 has perfect teeth, never had a filling and doesn't need braces. Just brush her teeth.

SionnachRua · 17/08/2021 16:40

Christ, at that age my granny used to give me sups of her Guinness (not that I'm recommending this, mind). An occasional cup of weak milky tea is fine.

LowlandLucky · 17/08/2021 16:44

I had tea in my bottle as a baby, i have all of my teeth, my children were given the same, all in their 30s and not a filling between them. My grandchildren have tea every morning. It is tea not whisky

flipflopslap · 17/08/2021 16:46

It's fine but I have no idea why you'd introduce a 3 year old to caffeine 🤣🤣🤣 carnage!

Knittedfairies · 17/08/2021 16:51

It will be fine; tea is not renowned for being a gateway drug...

1forAll74 · 17/08/2021 17:03

I have been drinking tea for 70 odd years now, I have all drinks black with one sugar. Had tea with tea leaves in the oldie days. Both my children drank tea when youngies.

titchy · 17/08/2021 17:09

@romdowa

My first sentence was asking for a bottle of tea 🤣🤣 I was raised on it. So I doubt one weak cup at the weekend will do any harm.
Me too!
juglover2008 · 17/08/2021 17:17

It's the tannin in the tea that's not great for children as it can cause amnemia. But as long as your daughters not having it every day once a week should be fine.

FizzyTango · 17/08/2021 17:23

There’s not much caffeine in tea? And you have to brew it properly to get the caffeine. So if you are dunking the bag it’s honestly fine…

TheVolturi · 17/08/2021 17:23

My 4 year old has loved a cuppa since she was less than 2! I don't see the harm...

flowerbus · 17/08/2021 17:27

My 4 year old loves a cuppa, I let my 1 year old have a sip too, i dont see the harm in it

Isandriena · 17/08/2021 17:47

Very weak tea is perfectly fine as long as it's not all the time. My 3 year old daughter sometimes has a cup of tea. I use my already used tea bag and add tons of milk

OneJollyStork · 28/02/2025 06:23

My daughter has had a cuppa since since she could hold a cup , very weak. She is now 5 and has a builders tea with sugar like me every few days. No problems.

LowlandLucky · 02/03/2025 15:28

All of my children have drank tea( no sugar) since they could lift a cup, they are all i their 30s now and all are healthy. Considering some parents give their small children energy drinks i don't think giving them tea is the worst crime.

Redmat · 02/03/2025 15:41

Children always used to drink tea from an early age. Big urn of warm, milky , sugary tea was the start to the mornings on my Brownie pack holidays and they all drank it . Times have changed.

Thatstheway · 02/03/2025 16:05

Wow this thread is a blast from the past.

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