I don't know if IBU or if I'm just emotional because it's the week before my period.
I have a cousin who is 5 years younger than me who gets invited to everything that we do. Eg- My children's christenings, birthdays, any Christmas Functions and also events held by my parents, along with my uncle and my cousins younger sister (also my cousin) too.
Yesterday, we found out she had a baby shower and invited our grandma and Aunty but not my mum and I. And tbh, I'm really annoyed and upset. I really want to message her and let her know how I feel (not in an aggressive way, just a "I'm so pleased you're having a baby, but was disappointed that we weren't invited" way).
My Uncle and two cousins are invited to my daughters christening next month, and I really want to uninvite them.
AIBU and she can do what she likes or is she BU and she should have invited us. And a bit extra, should I still invite them to the christening?