DH has had an injury for past couple of weeks, getting better and I’ve been covering things so he can rest (we both work full time and have 2 young DC)
Today we had a day out booked and would’ve been too much for injury which I get, so thought I’d take DC and give him a proper rest for the day.
He can do things but can’t be walking too much.
I don’t trouble him at all in the morning so he stays in bed while I’m up with DC /prepping for day out etc.
Get home at 4pm.
He’s not even showered or put the dishwasher on / kitchen is a mess. Just made his own lunch to pile on the mess.
He then goes off for nearly an hour to have a shower.
I’m shattered and ask him to help with kids.
He takes one off to the playroom, I thought to do colouring in activity thing that youngest needs help with but then I hear him snoring and find DC with pens / no help with the activity.
When I get annoyed he says he has a headache but apparently hadn’t thought to take pills. So I get him some.
Later on he again falls asleep next to youngest and just gives her tablet, while I’m giving the other a bath.
When it comes to bedtimes, I get youngest off to sleep and he comes and gets me as says other one wants me to help to go to sleep. Turns out that DC is hungry but DH just told him to stop crying or his tablet will go in the bin (which he’d been letting him play in bed at bedtime instead of making an effort to read a book/ make stories)
He’s also been farting and it is seriously stinking the place out. Just to wind me up more!
I’m so mad. Doing nothing all day and plenty of time to relax, but then not really helping out at all when we get back. Like he can’t be bothered. But I’ll be the unreasonable one for getting mad.
I’m exhausted after the last couple of weeks.
Feel taken for granted.