First post, but I need some advice.
DD turned 15 a few months ago, she is autistic. A few years ago, I had some problems with her as she had a ‘boyfriend’ and he was 14, DD was 11/12. They'd also met on Roblox, which freaked me out even more! I spoke to her, and so did her school and she blocked him. I kept checking and there was nothing, so I stopped checking so often but I would still check when she didn't expect it. It was about 3/4 years ago so I'd actually forgotten about him but I still check her Roblox account on her iPad every now and again and there's been nothing so I've thought she's learned the lesson of not speaking to random people on the internet!
Earlier, she was playing on her Xbox and I went into her room, I then saw she had a message from a random username and she looked panicked but I didn't say anything at the time. When DD was in the bath, I looked through her messages on the Xbox, and that account that messaged her is the boy, he's about 17 now, and they've been messaging all this time (although haven't been in a ‘relationship’ again until recently), the messages seemed innocent apart from DD sending hearts/calling him babe/telling him she loved him although he seemed to ignore this and change the subject. I only read one message where he said ‘i love you too’. I told DD I'm taking her Xbox as she can't be trusted and she doesn't know if this boy is who he says he is, DD then started shouting at me and saying she does as he sent her a video of him saying her name and they talk sometimes whilst they play a game together.
One message did make me feel uncomfortable but it was from DD, she asked the boy how his baby sister was and he replied ‘annoying’ then she said something like but she's only little and then told him not to get her pregnant as she never wants to have children. He did seem to ignore the message and changed the subject.
AIBU to have taken her Xbox off of her?