Been seeing someone for around 2 months. I put off inviting him back to mine for various reasons but I didn’t want to spend another weekend at his cramped flat so invited him over 3 weeks ago. He annoyed me from the start insisting that the house couldn’t have been mine and banging on about who does it really belong to etc etc
During the night I found him creeping around acting weird, asked what he was doing and he said he thought the house was haunted and asked if he could go to the cellar. I said he was creeping me out and making me feel like I was in the process of being robbed. He apologised, we went to bed. I woke up in the early hours to find him sat up in bed with the lamp on videoing the bedroom door. He claimed it was “moving”. Long story short I told him I’d found the weekend disappointing and wasn’t sure about seeing him again. He apologised and said he just loved old houses and went on about the history of some of the buildings in the nearby city. He seemed to know his stuff and sounded genuine. I got over it. He asked if he could come back and stay the following weekend. I said “ok but no weird stuff!” And he promised he wouldn’t. During that week he started sending me history lessons on my house. It was interesting to be fair.
The weekend arrived and he came over, seemed ok at first but I noticed he had this app on his phone that he was using to look for ghosts. I said something like “don’t start this again” and he said it was just a bit of fun. Later in the night there was a loud bang upstairs, he bolted up there all excited and basically something had fallen off the bathroom window ledge (window was open, blinds had waffed and knocked it off). That started a whole night of ghost talk. He’s freaking me out.
He’s meant to be coming over tomorrow and I’m going to tell him not to. I just don’t want to talk ghosts all night again. This is my home, he’s acting like it’s a fun tourist attraction. My friend thinks I’m being a killjoy as this is the only issue I have with him. AIbU?