DH had a work do last night and in the half an hour before he went he kept saying and emphasising that he would look after DD this morning and give me a lie in because he was going to work from home today and it was him being nice because he knew I couldn?t go to the black tie do etc (I'm 7 wks PG and inflicted with exhaustion). At 4:30 this morning I wake up to an empty bed. This is REALLY unusual, so I panic and wonder what the hell has happened and go and find him asleep on the sofa. I go back to bed but never managed to get back to sleep because the adrenaline had kicked in and that was enough to wake me up properly. DD starts squeaking from 6 but gets up at 6:50 and then we get up and still DH sleeps. He wakes up after about 10 mins. Not a word about anything other than wasn?t he kind sleeping on the sofa so as not to wake me up. Then he announces that he got in at 2am and must get more sleep so I go and shower and to bed he goes. A luxury I?ve never had when I?ve been out the night before as usually it?s a work day or DD gets me up anyway, so I don?t come home at 2, I come home at 11 or 12. Not a word about the supposed lie in or childcare that he was promising me last night.
I?m annoyed because I couldn?t get back to sleep; I could never announce I was going back to bed in those circumstances and get away with it; he offered a lie in and took it away without a thought or a mention?
He has just asked if I have a problem so I said yes and told him my issues. He laughed and said ?oh so it?s all to do with you then is it?. I am steaming.