Every time there is the possibility that our family needs to self isolate (3 times so far) my partner, a builder who works on his own on his own project gets anxious about work and says that he will isolate at work for the required period. Leaving me at home with 3 teenagers. He says he is being "pragmatic" and does not want to get behind on work. There is no terrible financial pressure: just pressure from himself. This makes me feel pretty low down his priority list and tbh pretty crap. He says that he thinks most women would not be bothered by this and would think it a sensible suggestion. Its the speed with which he suggests it that pisses me off. I am generally quite laid back but this has caused a lot of arguments over the last 15 months. AIBU?