Rules on distancing and sharing kids

[dailydoseses]

Does anyone know the rules in Scotland about social distancing and sharing kids.

If my ex doesn't distance am I allowed to not allow him to see his kids? I really don't want them to get sick

I'm breastfeeding and he had a bad reaction to it and im now worried. Both agreed to distance but he's seeing someone so obviously not.

Social distancing is guidance, not law, so you cannot legally prevent your children from seeing their father because he is not social distancing from his partner.

As from today there aren't physical distancing rules any more.

Who had a bad reaction to what?

It would be a very selfish and shortsighted move from you to stop your children’s father seeing them on the basis that they might get sick…

I'm assuming the ex had a bad reaction to OP choosing to breastfeed. What ages are the children and do you not want him to see them?

Are you expecting him not to have a partner?

I'm going to take a wild stab in the dark that whatever you're getting at, you're being unreasonable.

I remember your thread from the other day so I know things are 'complicated' to say the least but I don't think trying to stop him seeing his kids, is going to help.

@dementedpixie

I'm assuming the ex had a bad reaction to OP choosing to breastfeed. What ages are the children and do you not want him to see them?

I thought that, but wondered what relevant that had to him not social distancing with his partner.

Unfortunately when your kids are with him as long as ye meets their needs you can't stipulate what he does, and certainly you can't tell him what to do at other times. Unless you are particularly vulnerable you are being vu and controlling (well attempting to be). You sound very bitter

Ok so I’ve advance searched and can see there’s a lot more to this.
OP the Covid vaccine isn’t live, so any reaction your baby had to the vaccine through your breast milk is completely separate to a reaction he would have to Covid itself. Not that that means you want him to catch it of course.
It sounds like a really tough situation but you can’t force him to stay socially distanced from people (and now bars/clubs etc are open it’s pretty much a lost cause anyway).

Children have always been allowed to move freely between their parents homes. Restrictions have now been largely lifted in all parts of the UK. You cannot use your preferences as a reason to stop him seeing his children. The courts will take a very dim view of such an action on your part.

You can't stop him seeing the kids or control what he does. You could discuss both doing lateral flow tests before he collects them though to avoid spreading covid from one household to another?

Yabu of course you cannot stop him seeing his kids. The same as he cannot stop you from seeing the kids. Because they are both your children and not objects.

You can't ask your ex to distance from people.

I don't know what the rules are in Scotland but you have no right to stop your ex seeing the children for that.

You definitely can't stop him seeing the children because he has a girlfriend
FGS

YABU. Grow up

You cannot dictate to your ex what he does with the kids. As he can't dictate to you.
Yabu.

No you can't withhold contact of children with their father