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Trying to get a mortgage is so difficult, I feel like giving up!

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Dudewheresmyrangerover · 03/08/2021 15:31

I know that lenders have become a lot stricter recently. I thought it might be hard but it’s been a nightmare from the start. Is it suppose to be this difficult?

I’ve been renting for years and always wanted to buy my own place. I put an offer in on a flat two weeks ago which was accepted. I work full time and have been in the same job for the last 6 years. I’m not a huge earner but I do ok, have managed to pay my rent (which is more than what my mortgage will be) every month for the last 5 years. I’m only borrowing 75k. Originally we thought I could borrow up to 100k but they came back and said no as I still had car finance to pay off (only 3k left). A close family member offered to pay it off for me using a credit card in their name and I will just pay them back every month. All sorted. I was told once the car was paid off I could borrow up to that amount but no, I can only borrow up to 79k, wtf?

Luckily the flat I’m purchasing is only 80k so I’m finding the other 5% myself. Firstly the mortgage was declined due to a credit check, no idea why and my broker didn’t either as she checked my credit score and all seemed fine. I’ve never missed any payments. We sorted that. She found me a good offer, 5 year fixed rate, affordable etc. Put the application through which was agreed. I could tell the broker was getting a bit frustrated as they just kept on coming back asking for more information. Finally yesterday all seemed okay, I was sent the mortgage illustration and direct debit form to sign which I then sent back to my advisor. Lender has now come back and said that the offer was based on a government scheme (no idea what that is) which means I’d have to fill out lots of forms and meet their criteria. I asked my broker why that wasn’t advertised before we put the application through/waited for the underwriter to agree etc. Now we’ll have to look for another one.

Every time I think it’s all sorted, they come back with something else. There’s been so many obstacles in my way. I’m wondering if it’s always been this difficult. Just feel so frustrated with the whole process.

OP posts:
Bythemillpond · 03/08/2021 19:20

We are selling and our buyer has just had the mortgage offer today.

They had a mortgage offer back in February but when they came to move things forward it was found there were questions that needed answering. They were then asked question after question. Even up to the end of last week the mortgage company was still asking questions.
One was about a letter that had to be obtained from HMRC to confirm income which took 3 weeks for HMRC to produce and a further 5 weeks for the mortgage company to process. 2 months over one letter.

I am sure no where else on earth has this amount of hoops you have to jump through just to buy or sell a house.

I think over the years the time between making an offer and moving in is getting longer.
Ours will be 7 months

Flawedperfection · 03/08/2021 22:24

Wow, where can you buy a flat for £80,000? Sorry- missing point of thread, but where I live, a v basic 1 bed flat is around £250,000.

NotMyCat · 03/08/2021 22:34

@Flawedperfection mine is 100k. 2 bed, 2 bathroom, own garden, 75sqm, Lancashire

SchrodingersImmigrant · 03/08/2021 22:45

Are you sure it's not the broker who is the problem? They should be on top of this and know what's up a d what do lenders require . Let alone knowing whem application is done looking like it's with the gov scheme. I would speak to lender direct amd ask them where di they got the idea. Whether it was them or the bdoker who messed up

SchrodingersImmigrant · 03/08/2021 22:46

@Flawedperfection

Wow, where can you buy a flat for £80,000? Sorry- missing point of thread, but where I live, a v basic 1 bed flat is around £250,000.
In large parts of the country
SchrodingersImmigrant · 03/08/2021 22:47

Btw I have accord mortgages. Apparently they are frienxly to mkre difficult cases. Can't say bad word about them

nonotmenotI · 03/08/2021 22:49

My husband and I recently remortgaged. The hoops we had to jump through was ridiculous. I felt like they may as well have asked for a dna sample while they were at it.

ToykotoLosAngeles · 03/08/2021 22:50

Your broker sounds crap. She should have been able to see what the product (mortgage deal) was from the moment she ran the figures and it came up. If it's help to buy or a green mortgage or whatever it's right there!

JaceLancs · 03/08/2021 23:31

I Struggled to get mortgage based on salary as a single person despite high LTV (less than 50%)
I’ve ended up sticking to own bank as at least they have seen the way I deal with my general finances for last few years

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