We’ve been best friends for 30 years. As in, our entire adult lives are inter-twined, we went to primary school together, lived together for years and everyone’s sees us as a double! She is without a doubt my very best friend and I thought nothing could break that. But from the minute I met my husband she became distant despite saying she likes him. I clung to the friendship even when she seemed annoyed or distant; I don’t have any family and she’s always been the most important thing to me. She came to our wedding but I knew something was off; she wasn’t engaged with the day, didn’t seem happy for us. Then I heard nothing. For the last year she has completely ignored me; every text or phone call has gone unanswered, our mutual friends are equally confused by the whole thing but we hear nothing at all. The only explanation I ever got was that she just didn’t like me anymore; apparently she’d moved on from the friendship and decided it don’t deserve her energy. Honestly I’ve been so filled with grief the last year, I miss my friend and want to make things right even if I don’t think I’ve done anything “wrong.” I am heartbroken to lose her. Very happily married, great friendships but I still find myself filled with sadness about the loss. What can I do to make it easier to get over the loss of this friendship?