My partner’s cousin is getting married in November and her close friends are arranging her hen do. For context, I have met her a few times at family gatherings but we would never talk otherwise and are not close. I know two other people invited (family members) who I don’t particularly gel with but no issues.
It is going to be two nights and costs £340. That includes some activities but not food or alcohol.
I really don’t want to go. I think it’s too much money for a weekend with people I don’t know well, doing things I wouldn’t choose to do. I know that she would like me to go (she has mentioned to my partner) and I don’t want to disappoint her.
But AIBU to not go?