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I don't know how to feel better

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WaitingForMyMattress · 30/07/2021 21:42

At the end of last year I was prescribed antidepressants for the first time. My mental health had been really affected by the pandemic and some issues surrounding that, and since April/May 2020 I'd been feeling really low and was struggling. I didn't realise at the time that I was ill; it was only when I started my final year at university in September and realised I couldn't manage it that I contacted the GP and was given the medication.
The antidepressants have helped me - they enabled me to keep going with my degree and I graduated this month, and though not completely eliminated, my symptoms are much reduced. However, since finishing my degree/classes/assignments I feel like I've hit a bit of a wall. I feel quite down at times and sometimes feel underlying anxiety for no obviously identifiable reason. I find evenings particularly tough and at times look forward to going to bed in the hope of a "fresh start" and feeling better the next day. I don't really know what's wrong or why I feel this way. It's nowhere near as bad as I felt before I started taking the antidepressants, but it's enough to make me think that it's not just a down day that I occasionally had before I had any mental health issues. I don't really want to have counselling because I didn't have a great experience with a counsellor in the past, and I can't pinpoint any specific issue that I'd want to discuss. I think a lot of it might be loneliness - my entire university year was remote and many of the supportive relationships I used to have in my community have been impacted by the pandemic. Not really sure why I'm posting but if anyone has any tips I'd love to hear them!

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GrrRightBackAtYou · 30/07/2021 22:08

I think it would be a good idea to speak to the GP again. It’s not uncommon to need an adjustment in dose or find that your existing AD isn’t working as well as it has been and swap to a different one.
I guess graduating and being out in the world after being a student for so long could be a part of it, you are having to deal with a huge change -in the middle of a pandemic too!
There may be a social prescriber attached to the surgery (or local community centre) who can point you in the right direction for support rather than counselling?
www.england.nhs.uk/personalisedcare/social-prescribing/
Congratulations on your graduation, it must have been so hard studying remotely, it’s been a tough time for you.
I hope things improve for you soon Flowers

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