Picked up my 6 year old granddaughter yesterday from my daughter - 45 minute drive away if traffic ok. She's a delight but I get a list of what to do and not to do. I tend to do my own thing - it's our special time together. However, yet again, she has not been picked up at the time we agreed - was meant to be between 3-4 this afternoon but still not arrived and no message. I was supposed to be going out tonight at 6 which they knew about but will need to cancel. I'm 64 years old and still work full time - I'm dating as divorced. My daughter has said before that I seem a bit reluctant to do it very often but I'm getting annoyed that my life isn't factored into her and her husband's plans. I look after my granddaughter every month over night. Am I being unreasonable - I love them all dearly but ......