My 5 year old daughter has delayed language skills and struggles a bit socially, so I thought it might be a good idea for her to go to a holiday club one day a week to give her an opportunity to mix with her peers over the long break. The holiday club is right next to her school and the same people run the breakfast and after school club, so a few of her friends from school also go.
It was her first day today and she was a little anxious. I was also a bit worried about her going to the toilet as she doesn't like asking (very shy) and at school the toilets are part of the classroom and they can just go straight in. Anyway, I went to drop her off and when we arrived the woman who answered the door didn't introduce herself, didn't really say hello and didn't even ask my daughter's name! She obviously just expected me to push her through the door and leave. I said it was her first day and she was a bit nervous and she just looked at me like I was mad... Fortunately another member of staff happened to walk past and asked my daughter if she wanted to go in with her (still no introductions or asking of names etc.) I hung around to have a quick chat with the first woman and tried to quickly just explain she might be shy about asking to go to the toilet and that her sun hat and lunch were in her bag. She just continued to look at me like she had no idea what I was going on about so I just kind of backed out of the door in embarrassment.
When I went back to pick her up, the same woman was there. I asked her if my daughter had had a good day, she just said 'yeah fine', literally NOTHING more than that. No information about what she'd done or how she'd been, not even 'yes she's had great fun', literally nothing.
AIBU to expect a bit more? I don't want a handover meeting or detailed description of her day, but given that she's 5, it was her first time in a new building with people neither she or I have ever met before just a bit of warmth and enthusiasm would have been nice??