Man early 40s. He's single but flirting with me.
Known him years, actually an old flame.
I downloaded Tik Tok yesterday only because an MUA I follow on Facebook posted a link. I got sucked in.
Anyway, phone asks me to sync my contacts and he appeared.
He hasn't posted any videos.
He is following over 4000 accounts....of course I had a nosey.
My god, 99% of them all young women with boobs out, arses out, flirting and posing at the camera.
My teenage daughter has Tik Tok but an under 16 account.
No one else I know really bothers with it apart from the tweens and teens that I know who watch the dances and funny clips.
I am a bit shocked to see him on there and honestly feel urrgh at it all.
I'm no prude but I just don't like this at all.
Am I overreacting?
It's just made me see him in a whole new light.
I can't get my head around why it bothers me so much, its not my own insecurites and he's free and single etc but I just keep thinking "ewww go away you perve!"
Would anyone else feel the same or AIBU to think like this?
I'm 42 myself and been single 6 years. I gave up OLD as sick of all the dick pics and lude comments. What is it with grown men nowadays!
Think I'll just become a nun.