DH and I decided that this year we would start taking it in turns with families for xmas day. So we decided that we would spend xmas day with MIL and boxing day with my folks. Told MIL and she said, well i dont know what im doing, nana isnt doing anything this year, to which DH said well maybe well just do it at home then! She agreed and said that we could all meet up for afternoon tea and a walk. So i got all excited, our first family christmas, just the 3 of us and bump at home on our own, sounds lovely, so after i started planning everything she comes around and says i dont think ive anything to do on xmas day, what are you doing? Ahhhhhhhh!
She is on her own and I know that xmas is a hrad time for her, but we have allready offered to spend the day with her and she turned us down.
AIBU to just want our lovely family christmas without MIL telling me how to cook my dinner and causing arguements DH, which is inevitable!