I married my DD last year after 11 years together. Second marriage for both of us. We both have grown up children, none still at home. He's lovely in many ways and most of the time all is good between us. My problem is that he doesn't always keep to what we agreed. He has taken a part time weekend job which he loves. He's on call and can be out for hours. We agreed he would take this weekend off as I'm away and our dog will be left for too long alone if he's working. He promised me he would keep to this. I'm on my way home and just found out he's been on call today and been away from the house. On top of that he can't pick me up as he promised. He doesn't see any issue with breaking our agreement, how can I trust him when he doesn't keep his promises?