I could be doing a lot worse, i appreciate that, but i do see some numbers on here and financial subreddits that do make me a little envious!
In the interests of being open, i am 34 and currently have £60k in a defined contribution pension, contributing about £10k a year when I also factor in employer paying in and tax relief etc. I have about 30k in a S&S ISA, but not all of that will be for a pension, some for next house move etc. My partner has about the same, perhaps a little less in the pension.
We have quite a lot of equity in the house, maybe about £250k, but don't really consider this in our financial planning as we wont want to sell our house when we get older just for a little extra cash, we would want to live in it as long as we can.
The hope is to retire about 57/58ish if we fancy it, ideally we would want to be able to withdraw about 3-4% of our savings each year to give us about £35k a year, if we can keep to that percentage we should not run out of money or even really make a dent at all on the cash so that it can all be passed on to our daughter (minus IHT of course)