I have started seeing my ex again. We have been getting on really well. We met for a date last weekend and talked about seeing each other again this weekend and he said he had nothing at all on, so all was good, we could arrange something.
I made noises about arranging something a few days back and suddenly he's busy all weekend. He's away for two weekends after this weekend so I won't see him for three weeks. I got a bit miffed at this and commented that he'd said he had a completely free weekend when I saw him and he said something about just because he'd said that, it just meant he didn't have anything planned but had lots to do.
He eventually said he would be free Saturday afternoon and some of Sunday daytime. I then said that was good and we could do something Saturday afternoon. He then immediately text back that he was now meeting his family for the afternoon. So that was Saturday afternoon out. I also mentioned I could stay over at his, and have stayed many times in the past when we were together but he said it was too soon for that, even in his spare room as I had suggested.
I got really upset and called him out on being unavailable and if he wasn't interested to just say so. He said he definitely is interested. TBH without being boasty, he is punching above his weight.
AIBU to be upset at his behaviour? It feels like he's challenging me.