DS goes to his dad two days a week for childcare and he drops him off at 8.30pm once I finish work (walks him round in the pram as we don't drive) so ds is always fast asleep it's well past his bedtime anyway as he's only 15 months so in an ideal world I lift him from the pram and straight into bed. However, everytime he drops him off his face is still covered in food stains I assume from dinner. He never bothers to change him into pjz always stil in the dirty clothes, his feet are black, hands sticky. AIBU to say this really gets on my nerves would you please clean ur child. I would never pass him over to him in the mess he's comes home in. AIB ocd here? It's more of i have to then wash and bath him hel wake up not want to sleep again as now it's mummy play time and also i find it annoying that he just doesn't even clean him after he eats.
YABU - don't say anything just clean ur child urself
YANBU - as his father he should at least wash or bath him and send him home clean