Hello, ok so would love ur advice- do I have reason to be annoyed or am I just being super sensitive?
Had 8w scan on Sunday after some light bleeding- it showed no heartbeat and measurement dates of 6w. Second scan was booked in for Monday but I started bleeding heavier yesterday- like a period- small clots but nothing large. More than the bleeding has been the cramps- normal period cramps most of the time but every so often strong contraction like pains.
The pregnancy was a surprise as we have been trying for 6 years and I had honestly given up- I cried a lot Monday after the scan as deep down I knew the outcome but since I’ve started bleeding I have become more detached- I’m thankful it seems to all be happening naturally.
Anyway- husband was very good at scan- seemed upset but is very logical and to him there was no hope, the outcome was conclusive. He was right to be fair.
I spent most of yest on the sofa or in bed due to the pain- he did the housework- fed the kids but moaned about it- he didn’t expect me to do it- just moaning about the kids really as 2 of them are teenagers. He asked every so often how I was but felt I had to give him updates as otherwise he wouldn’t have asked.
I’ve woken this morning- pain already quite bad… I get up, go to the bathroom- take paracetamol, groan a bit- all whilst he’s sat in bed watching a movie on Netflix. I sat and waited to see if he would ask how I was feeling. … 40 mins later and nothing. Once or twice he rubbed top of my tummy but actually think he was aiming for my breasts! Finally he asked… and this is where the problem began…. I could have said ok/fine/bit sore but I didn’t, instead I said ‘u should have asked that 40 mins ago’. He totally lost it- said he knew I was going through a tough time but wasn’t fair to take sh*t out on him. We r currently not talking.
Arrgghh