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zaharron · 20/07/2021 23:20

DD (14, almost 15) came downstairs earlier and showed me messages from some girls, saying things about her looks etc. This all started because the other day a boy, who's very popular and according to DD a lot of girls fancy him, went over and gave DD a hug the other day in front of the girls.

A few of them have also added DD and the boy to a group and told them they wouldn't be a good couple etc and DD has said that she's not in a relationship with the boy and he's already told them to leave DD and him alone and he's told them to stop arguing over him and that he can hug whoever he wants too.

I'm thinking of reporting the messages to the school, but my DP (not DDs dad) has told me not too as its just silly teenage girl drama.

Wwyd?

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RedHelenB · 20/07/2021 23:23

I wouldn't get involved.

Malcolmtheladymayoress · 20/07/2021 23:24

Depending on the content of the messages, I might leave it for now and see if the girls back off.

Your daughter is sensible enough to show you the messages so you can keep an eye on the situation. If there is anything in the messages that makes you uncomfortable, I'd speak the the school.

zaharron · 20/07/2021 23:56

The messages were about DDs looks etc and that she ‘doesnt deserve’ the boy.

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QueenBee52 · 21/07/2021 00:16

block every single person.

TigerFar · 21/07/2021 07:24

I would as it could turn into bullying

slashlover · 21/07/2021 08:38

Do the schools not break up this week anyway?

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