My sister lives abroad and needs fairly major surgery tomorrow. Our parents have paid for the surgery privately as she needed it sooner rather than later. They have parted with 10,000 altogethe. She has isolated two weeks prior and will isolate two weeks post operation at their house.
Two days before isolation she arrives with her partner at my parents house. partner is a lazy arse and lives a comfortable love spending her cash. He is a bigoted oaf with the intelligence of a guppy fish.
He left my parents very early on coz he was bored and went to visit his family. None of his mates wanted to see him (probably coz he doesn't have any) and he is due to arrive back at my parents the day of her operation. They have all isolated he is refusing both a lateral flow or PCR test and is happy to put my sister at risk coz he is an idiot.
My sister has been totally manipulated by him and has thrown a strop with our lovely parents who agreed to let him back in. My mum got upset and spoke to my aunt who has told me what happened.
I rang my sister and have her an ultimatum she would tell him to have the PCR or I will.
I'm disappointed in her for allowing him to put her at risk, manipulating my very non assertive parents and putting the large amount of money they have invested in her health at risk all because he is a twonk.
He reluctantly agreed God knows what his opinion is of me I don't care and he will bring his PCT test to their house.
It's my son's birthday party the day before they fly back she will not have seen him for 12 months. I want to invite my sister but don't want want him to be there because of the selfish attitude towards my sister and parents. Heavens knows what he would do if he didn't come as he flies back home so is staying with them.
Talk me down help me to see reason!