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AIBU?

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To wonder if the problem is me?

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iluvalfredo · 19/07/2021 22:41

Every job I have been in it always starts out and ends up the same...it's very predictable and I'm at the stage where I am wondering if I am the problem.

Every job I've had since leaving school goes like this...the first few months I get along great with my manager/supervisor..I think wow they're really nice. A few months pass and then the manager/supervisor starts to become short with me for no apparent reason, less friendly and more cold and snappy. Some days they will be fine with me but nothing like at the start of the job, it's always up and down and makes me anxious.

This happens in EVERY job I have without fail. I'm actually volunteering at the moment whilst in uni and it's now happening in my volunteering role.

I'm beginning to wonder if I'm genuinely an unlikable person? I think I'm friendly, polite, hard working, I ask people questions about themselves and listen to them and remember what they tell me, I am always on time, always smiling. But maybe I am the problem as it keeps happening.

AIBU to think it's me?

OP posts:
YelloYelloYello · 20/07/2021 09:24

I think you need to talk to her. Say you’re really keen to do a good job and ask if a review would be possible so you can have some feedback on how things are going and what you can do to improve.

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