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Shared ownership requirement putting me in awkward position with current landlord

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strawbmilkshake · 19/07/2021 16:26

I’ve just purchased a shared ownership property. We’ve only just got the ball rolling with paperwork but nothing has been signed yet, contracts etc and I don’t even have a moving date yet. I’m not sure what the vendors situation is and how soon she can move. I currently rent and have done for the last 5 years and the other shareholder has obviously seen that from the paperwork. On top of my mortgage I will have to pay them a small amount in rent each month and due to this they need to obtain a reference from my current landlord just to make sure I’ve paid the rent on time every month.

My plan was to wait until everything was finalised with the new property before telling my landlord and giving notice just incase it all falls through or I end up waiting a while to move. Properties where I currently live are hard to come by (small village) so I would rather wait until I know I’m definitely leaving before giving notice. I’ve asked the shareholder if I can provide bank statements instead which clearly show I’ve paid the rent on time every month for the last 5 years but they’ve said no, it must be a reference.

Obviously I will have to give them the details if I want to continue with the purchase but AIBU in thinking this requirement must put people in a really awkward position? If I lived at home with parents/family then this wouldn’t be an issue so it seems slightly unfair. They don’t make it easy for people, do they?!

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HalzTangz · 19/07/2021 16:39

Why's it awkward, just tell your landlord you are purchasing a property and need a reference. Landlords don't expect Tennant's to stay forever and a day.
That said, the guy wanting the reference could just carry out a credit check, it doesn't have to be a reference.

LakieLady · 19/07/2021 16:41

Just tell them, and explain that it will take a good while to go through and that you will definitely give them at least the amount of notice specified in your tenancy agreement.

FrippEnos · 19/07/2021 16:42

If you are renting through an agency could they provide the reference?

strawbmilkshake · 19/07/2021 16:51

@FrippEnos it is with a private landlord

I will have to pass on the details it if I want to purchase the property but I'm sure my landlord will want to know when I'm leaving so they can get someone else in. I won't have the answers so it does make me feel quite awkward about it.

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ClaudiaWankleman · 19/07/2021 17:01

I will have to pass on the details it if I want to purchase the property but I'm sure my landlord will want to know when I'm leaving so they can get someone else in. I won't have the answers so it does make me feel quite awkward about it.

So you say 'I'm not quite sure yet but I'll make sure to let you know in good time, as in the contract'.

Bluntness100 · 19/07/2021 17:10

Why all the secrecy, just tell them, snd tell them you don’t know dates hut soon as you do you’ll let them know and give notice.

Jangle33 · 19/07/2021 17:12

Sounds very early in the process if you’re nowhere near exchange. Can’t you do all the searches/everything else and then just do the reference when you are on crux of exchange?

Soontobe60 · 19/07/2021 17:17

[quote strawbmilkshake]@FrippEnos it is with a private landlord

I will have to pass on the details it if I want to purchase the property but I'm sure my landlord will want to know when I'm leaving so they can get someone else in. I won't have the answers so it does make me feel quite awkward about it. [/quote]
It may be that you give the correct notice but that there’s an overlap with the rent and mortgage. My DD had a 2 week overlap, which meant that she could take possession of her property and decorate before she actually moved in. You need to factor this in your finances.

Meadowlands1 · 19/07/2021 18:18

you won't be handing your notice in until you know you are exchanging I am moving soon but have not told my landlord yet. I expect giving a month notice will mean I am paying rent and mortgage for a couple of weeks as I won't get much notice to move.

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