Was supposed to go somewhere with a friend. Been many times before and it was always her absolute favourite place to go because she had an ex who worked there that she would flirt with. It got a bit irritating and sometimes resulted in me hanging out alone while she went off with him. Usually a fun night out though so, while it was irritating, I'd always enjoy it.
Planned to take another friend for said friend's birthday. Much excitement from the birthday girl as she's never been.
Original date got cancelled due to COVID.
In the meantime - my friend's ex stopped working there.
Now looking to reschedule to go back for the other friend's birthday and suddenly, with the departure of her ex, my friend 'isn't that bothered about going'. Lots of 'oh you ladies go ahead without me, don't worry about my schedule'.
Absolutely seething. We had so many nights there previously, planned meticulously so she could go and flirt with her ex. Where we stood, what time we went and what we did all had to be focussed around her 'accidentally' bumping into him.
Now he's no longer there, she's happy to let down another close friend on her birthday.
So disappointed in her selfishness. I'm so non-confrontational but I may need to say something.
AIBU to tell her she's being selfish, utterly transparent and generally just a crappy friend.