I've Been really really ill for a couple of years, and it was found out recently that my illness was down to chronic gluten intolerance. It's actually resulted in me not being able to walk, and in consequence although I gave up gluten I'm having to do lots of exercise to learn to walk again. My Mum died in lockdown last year, I have a sister who is 16 years older than me and we have been left mums property which is in a warden supervised retirement block. Because my sister is utterly hopeless ( has always been looked after by her husband never done anything for herself) I'm dealing with selling the flat, I have just finished negotiating a new lease hold for it, it's now on the market. My sister knows that I haven't been jabbed because of my condition ( my consultant is worried about my reaction to the jab as I'm anaphylactically reactive to gluten). Anyway my sister wants to come and see me on a Sunday, Which would be fine but my husband is very concerned because although she has been jabbed, I haven't, and he is worried about the risk of transmitting any infection to me. It would be fine if I knew that the day would be dry and we could stay in the garden. We live in a small semi Rural village where there isn't much to do on a Sunday, and it would be easier if she came during the week or on a Saturday - if it was sunny we could stay in our garden, but If it rains we can go to a Starbucks which has a covered outdoor area. My husband has no issue with her coming as long as we will be outside, but he is worried in case it rains !. I asked if she could come on a different day, but she is adamant she babysits her grandchild every Saturday, and won't actually explain why she won't come during the week. My husband says she is bullying me and always has ever since he's known me. AIBU or his he or what here ?. I feel torn between my husband and my sister :((