I’m a single mum to an 11 month old. Ex contributes financially and practically. We were renting together but after the split I had to move back in with parents. Parents are brilliant and don’t ask for a penny but I give them half of my part-time job wage and the rest is on DS, my car and basic personal care stuff for myself. I want to get on the property ladder. I have bad memories of being moved from pillar to post as a child as my parents private rented (they now own after an inheritance). My parents have 2 extra rooms so not a cat in hell’s chance of a council property.
I have a few years worth of savings, £5k. Won’t get much of a mortgage at the moment but plan to go full-time soon and would be earning around £1100 a month. My wage along with money I get for DS (ex is great and pays a lot more maintenance than he has to) with outgoings calculated make me think I’ll get a £40-60k mortgage.
I’m trying to work out if I stand a hope in hell, even with shared ownership. I’m in the NW. The properties I’m looking at are something like this:
www.sharetobuy.com/properties/162696/
People have warned me about shared ownership but I keep thinking surely it’s better than 100% rent, hence why I’m asking. I know that realistically, I’m a single mum still living with my parents on a terrible hospitality wage and I should just accept that I’m not the type of person who gets to own in this country, but I have an urge to own my own place (even if just a %) and I feel like I have to do it.
Would I be getting myself into a world of shit or is it a good means to an end?