Help much needed please!
I was with my sons father for a long time, and dealt with and put up with various abusive behaviours and his drug use, after he went onto a treatment plan he carried on his abusive behaviour until he left me and his son despite my best efforts he would never contact me to make arrangements to see our son it would always be me contacting him to make arrangements which would usually lead to him screaming at me down the phone, he would usually not have him every week either only one night every 2 or 3 weeks and each time he would go out of his way to shout at me every time it was pick up and drop off.
Things came to a head when I had another baby even though we sort of came to a friendly agreement he reverted back to his nasty ways and became more and more verbally abusive and aggressive, around 6 weeks ago he blocked my phone number and me on WhatsApp and I haven’t heard from him since prior to this I stopped contacting him in terms of arrangements and he let 2 months go by without asking about his son or seeing him when he did arrange to see him, this was when he started texting me abuse and then blocked me. I have spoken to the solicitors and although they said there isn’t much I can do as he’s blocked me from contacting him I could go down the route of mediation, I’m not sure what to do next as it’s been nearly 2 months again. Should I stop all contact altogether and not bother? Everyone I’ve spoken to in my inner circle have just said to walk away? Any help would be appreciated as I never wanted this situation in the first place I did try to maintain a friendship and amicable situation but he’s just blocked all contact altogether now.