NC for this, it's another porn one.
My DH (maybe soon to be ExH) and I have had the same argument over and over for the past five years and it's his porn consumption, first it was because he was looking at "real life porn" think OF but free and that made me uncomfortable etc and what not and then earlier this year it was OF and happened literally a day or two before my dads funeral which was a bit of a kick in the teeth, now this morning I saw it on his phone as I went to google something (he must have forgotten to hide it like he normally does) the problem this morning was he was suppose to be caring for DS 5 months whilst I was at an appointment so I asked if he did it in front of him as that made me feel a bit uneasy and he said no he went into the toilet to do it meaning he left ds alone in the living room with the five cats unsupervised and I am so mad, I ignored it when it was just impacting me but now I feel like he put his son in possible danger (I love my cats but they're unpredictable like any animals are) to get his jollies. I just feel sick and have asked him to leave, this feels like the final straw for me but aibu? I honestly don't know anymore - I mean it wasn't OF this time but pornhub which has ethical issues all on it's own, ugh I just feel sick.