Is this normal?

[babyblues21]

Posting for traffic as I did try posting in the health part but no responses.

Is it normal to bleed heavily with awful cramps 5 days after taking the morning after pill? I am 11 weeks postpartum and haven't taken any birth control since the birth of my baby. Please don't judge me I made a stupid decision whilst under pressure. Thank you.

You could probably get some advice by ringing 111 if the length of bleeding concerns you. What does the packet insert say about what will happen? Is it within the details given?

I’m more concerned that someone has pressured you into sex - clearly unprotected - and you weren’t able to refuse. Are you in an abusive relationship? Do you need help?

The MAP can mess with your cycle but I’d def get checked out anyway.

Like the pp, I’m actually more concerned about the situation where you were put under duress. Do you feel safe? 🌸

Well it's not quite as bad as it seems I don't think. We have had sex a couple times since baby was born and used condoms but we had ran out of them. I didn't realise this at the time he initiated it so I said "what about a condom" and he said we haven't got any but it was already initiated by then. I said we need to be careful etc. He was already sort of doing it by then though and he said "I want to remember what you feel like" (meaning since baby was born we haven't had any unprotected sex like we used to). I didn't say no, but yes I felt under pressure. I could have said no clearly and he would have stopped I'm sure, so it's as much my fault. He used the withdrawal method so I think chance of pregnancy is low but I didn't want to take the risk.

It’s still not right though @ @babyblues21 is it?
I assume he knows you’re not on any birth control so he was taking a big chance.

His comment is childish and immature.

You need to have a conversation with him about how you feel. This is a BIG issue.