I really don’t like facial hair on men, never have. Fine on other men, each to their own and I know that some men suit it. My husband has grown a moustache and it literally turns my stomach. I feel it looks awful on him, it just doesn’t suit him and he looks creepy. He sits twisting the ends of it and it turns my stomach. I literally can’t even look at him in the face for more than a few moments … sex life was pretty non-existent anyway as we’re both tired all the time but now, no way!! He knows how much I hate it but won’t shave it off. He thinks I’m being controlling in wanting him to. I would never do something with my physical appearance that he found physically repellent, it upsets me that he knows how much I loathe it but says that he’s keeping it anyway. I’ve dropped the subject, but what would you do? And please don’t say I have to learn to like it because he’s had it for months and has also done this before, I’ve always loathed it. I do wonder if I have a phobia of moustaches, it apparently is a real thing!