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To find it difficult to exercise with a baby

29 replies

Whiteinsteadofcream · 04/07/2021 07:45

I’m just wondering what others manage to do, as I look a state!

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CurlyhairedAssassin · 04/07/2021 09:54

It's really hard if you work as well, or when your kids are toddlers and want to walk at a snail's pace. When my first was in a pram and I wasn't working I just walked every day - fast. I reckon I ended up quite fit. But as soon as DS2 was born it got much harder. I did have a double buggy for a short time but DS2 was a crier and it just wasn't the same, having to stop and try to comfort him or pick him up.

Then DS1 wanted to walk and it wasn't fair to tell him "no, you must stay in the buggy so I can walk faster to get some exercise". So that avenue to exercise stopped.

DH works stupidly long hours and leaves the house at 5.30am and by the time he got home at night he would put DS1 to bed while I did the crying baby and then we would have to sort dinner, cleaning up etc. I just couldn't face doing any exercise after 8.30, I was exhausted.

I suppose I could have done something at the weekend but I was either having my one lie in of the week or we went out somewhere as a family, or did food shopping in peace while the other had the kids etc.

DH managed to do some runs during the week sometimes at about 9pm but I had no desire to do that - too knackered and didn't want to run in the dark (plus bladder issues so not really able to run). Then when it should have got a bit easier to do it round all that, I went back to work, and so there was more housework etc to do in the evenings when the kids were in bed (or DH and I wanted to use the time to watch a box set together instead of exercising!_

It sounds like I'm making excuses but it was really really hard, I was really exhausted when I DID have a bit of time and just wanted to read a magazine with a cuppa instead. You have to LOVE exercise to want to be able to fit it in in those circumstances and I don't so......

Now I'm nearly 50 and I have more time but far, FAR less energy at the end of a FT working day and just fall asleep on the sofa.....Grin

littlegiant · 04/07/2021 10:03

@Nel246

I run in a morning with my 2 year old and one year old in the double buggy. They love it and I get my exercise in. We stop midway at a park for a break. I'm probably in the best shape ever! It's bloody hard pushing the pram but only way I can do some fitness in.
Is this a running pram or just a regular one?
Whiteinsteadofcream · 04/07/2021 10:06

It is hard. I used to go to the gym fairly regularly but I can’t really do that now!

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TheGongGoesBong · 04/07/2021 13:20

I've a 3 year old and nearly 2 year old and find it so difficult to get exercise in. I have taken to doing HIIT classes on YouTube when they go down to sleep or having a nap (not that the 3 year old really naps anymore). I find them effective because it's hard work for a short period of time.

I also think it's important for you to find an exercise type you enjoy so it keeps you motivated. It's perverse that when you're knackered and cba a bit of exercise gives you energy!

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