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Is neighbour being a CF parking this way or AIBU?

86 replies

GoodbyeRosieQueenOfCorona · 03/07/2021 20:52

Outside of our house there is space for 4 cars between dropped curbs, as per diagram 1. The old boy two doors down normally parks on one end, I normally (but not always) get the space the other end, leaving space for 2 cars in between.
The house next door is rented, and the people that lived there when we moved in only had one car so there was never any problems with parking. But they went and the new renters who moved in a couple of months ago have two cars, so there's always a little bit of a tussle for the spaces out the front since then.
It really irritates DH but that's mostly cos he works shifts and is often the one who doesn't get a space and sometimes has to park quite far away. But I've always had the attitude that it's a public highway and it's first come first served.
That was until today. Me, DH and DS been out for the afternoon in DH's car and came back to find the neighbour's car parked right in the middle of the two spaces. (As per diagram 2) We were both a bit "really??" Hmm but went and found another space further down the road, parked and walked back.
A bit later on the neighbour 2 car turns up, neighbour 1 comes out, moves his car back, neighbour 2 parks up and they both go in next door.
Me and DH were now Shock cos it now seems like neighbour 1 deliberately parked in the middle in order to keep a space for neighbour 2.
AIBU to think that this is a bit cheeky? Of course it's public highway and we've got no control of how they park, but we've always been mindful when parking to make sure we are being considerate. We might not bother in the future!

Is neighbour being a CF parking this way or AIBU?
Is neighbour being a CF parking this way or AIBU?
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MouldyPotato · 03/07/2021 20:54

They've either plotted to do this or neighbour 2 has given neighbours 1 a ring and said oi move your car you wally.

MouldyPotato · 03/07/2021 20:55

Can DH knock on the door as ask them to move up a bit next time there is no space?

ellesbellesxxx · 03/07/2021 20:56

It sounds cheeky yes… there’s no way they think both scales belong to the property though?

ellesbellesxxx · 03/07/2021 20:56

*spaces

LaurieFairyCake · 03/07/2021 20:56

Wait, do neighbour 1 + 2 live in same house ?

If so then yep, they're securing their spaces - nowt you can do

ZenNudist · 03/07/2021 20:57

Are these marked spaces? Very cheeky. Can you Park over the space lines too?

User135792468 · 03/07/2021 20:58

Can you not just knock and say, there’s room for 4 cars if we all park this way (then point out what you mean). Say you don’t mind them overhanging slightly but could they please try to leave your spot free? I may have totally misread your diagrams though 😂

GoodbyeRosieQueenOfCorona · 03/07/2021 20:58

@MouldyPotato they don't speak English so raising it with them is not an option.

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Clymene · 03/07/2021 20:58

I have new neighbours like this. They're absolute wankers. Sorry, you have my sympathy

Cwenthryth · 03/07/2021 20:59

That’s well cheeky. Not illegal but not neighbourly at all. You may now re-christen them from “neighbours” to “cheekyfuckerinos”

GoodbyeRosieQueenOfCorona · 03/07/2021 20:59

@ZenNudist no not marked spaces, just the normal side of the road.

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Seeline · 03/07/2021 20:59

So do you have 1 or 2 cars?

woodhill · 03/07/2021 21:00

[quote GoodbyeRosieQueenOfCorona]@MouldyPotato they don't speak English so raising it with them is not an option. [/quote]
You could try. I'm sure they'd get the jist of what you are saying

TulipsTwoLips · 03/07/2021 21:00

Use some hand gestures then! If you wont raise it with them there isnt lots of point to your post!

Letsnotargue · 03/07/2021 21:01

It won’t help immediately but could you park your car next to neighbours? Would mean that they couldn’t then fit two cars in even if they moved. They might come and ask you to move and you can explain the problem. Or they might just get the message.

User135792468 · 03/07/2021 21:02

[quote GoodbyeRosieQueenOfCorona]@MouldyPotato they don't speak English so raising it with them is not an option. [/quote]
As someone who has lived abroad in a few countries and had different neighbours in this country who don’t speak English, a big smile and some sign language works just fine.

Baker0104 · 03/07/2021 21:02

I live in a street with nightmare parking! Not enough space for too many cars and that's if every house only had 1 car...
Your neighbours are defo doing this on purpose 😂 we have neighbours use their motorbikes (that are normally parked in their back garden) to reserve spaces, use wheely bins to reserve spots, do what your neighbours have done to reserve spots.... Its a bloody nightmare 😂

Purpleweeks · 03/07/2021 21:03

If it is just an occasional or one of thing is ignore bit of they do it regularly I would move the red car closer to the black cat so that they can't then park move to park the second car

MouldyPotato · 03/07/2021 21:03

[quote GoodbyeRosieQueenOfCorona]@MouldyPotato they don't speak English so raising it with them is not an option. [/quote]
Show them your diagrams?

AnUnoriginalUsername · 03/07/2021 21:03

I think this is just a case of too many cars between you and not enough spaces. There are five cars and four spaces.

MouldyPotato · 03/07/2021 21:04

Or use Google translate

GoodbyeRosieQueenOfCorona · 03/07/2021 21:07

@Cwenthryth 🤣🤣🤣

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GoodbyeRosieQueenOfCorona · 03/07/2021 21:08

@Baker0104 god that sounds like a nightmare!

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FixTheBone · 03/07/2021 21:09

Next time they do it, just park right up to their car, so even if they move, there wont be space for two.

Passive aggressive deliciousness.

GoodbyeRosieQueenOfCorona · 03/07/2021 21:10

@MouldyPotato @User135792468
I could attempt it if it happens again, I just wanted to see if people thought this was cheeky or if this is just what people did.

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