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AIBU to ask you about your terrible mornings to cheer me up?

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hawkehurstgang · 02/07/2021 05:02

The type of mornings where you say "I can't believe X, X and X has already happened and its not even X AM! 😫"

I live abroad where 1) everyone pays for everything using an app on their phone (cash is often met with an amused smirk so I've stopped using it now!) and 2) the language is really bloody difficult. I've been learning but still having trouble getting anyone to understand me.

New job, ready to go on time despite getting around 4 hours sleep due to poorly baby and feeling terrible.

Walked out of the door and realised I'd forgotten my phone. No problem, went to open the door and realised I also didn't have my key.

Banging on the door for so long but DH is sleeping like a baby after being up late with the actual baby and didn't hear. At this point I'm sweating profusely (it's BOILING here, and not in a nice way, in a sweaty humid way), I'm frazzled, and getting tearful and stressy. I live in an apartment so can't go to a side door or window to try there. But we DO have guards (all the apartment complexes have guards here) so I go downstairs planning to ask a guard if I can borrow their phone to make a quick call to DH.

I ask the guard, through a combination of my broken language and the art of mime, and he eventually understands that I have a problem involving a lack of a phone and a key. So he phones me a locksmith. I'm frantically trying to signal to him that I don't need a locksmith but he's too busy on the phone to the locksmith to listen. Eventually understands and needs to call the locksmith back while I stand there, hot, flustered, embarrassed (a small crowd was forming - foreign people attract attention at the best of times and I expect I was looking a bit insane, flailing my arms around like a lunatic and trying to mime out everything I wanted to say to the poor bemused guard) and feeling like the world's biggest nuisance. Eventually he understands and gives me the phone and I ring DH, who of course doesn't pick up until after I've let the phone ring and ring and ring five times over.

Eventually DH lets me in, and I inexplicably burst into tears and am crying so much through a combination of tiredness, embarrassment and frustration and PMT and I can't stop crying. I'm late for work but I can't stop!

Pull myself together, think I'll take a tuktuk to the subway station to save time, even though I'll still be late. And while on the tuktuk, while texting my friend the tale of my woes, I go over a bump, phone flies out of my hand, onto the floor, and through a gap underneath my seat onto the road, where the screen cracks (but miraculously, at least, it's still working).

So here I am, late for work, looking like a mess, with a cracked phone screen, and still feeling a bit tearful and pathetic. I KNOW i need to pull myself together, but my tired brain can't get around this amount of frustration before 10 AM.

Can someone please share tales of equally pathetic/bad mornings to make me feel better?

OP posts:
hawkehurstgang · 02/07/2021 05:04

Forgot to add, a bruised hand from all the door banging. Woe is me.

OP posts:
sashh · 02/07/2021 05:37

Sorry OP I have nothing that matches that.

I hope the new job goes well.

silliphant · 02/07/2021 06:11

No stories either sadly but that all sounds really rubbish and stressful OP Thanks lack of sleep makes everything feel much worse too. Hope you feel a bit better soon!

CrazyCatsAndKittens · 02/07/2021 06:12

Oh, gosh, so many!

One was where I lost my car keys. I was frantically searching everywhere and couldn't find them. In the end I called work and told them I had a flat battery in the car. Eventually found them on the top bunk of the bunk bed. It was awful!

Another was my son was going on a school trip and everything went wrong and we were driving to school late and his teacher called me and I had him on speakerphone. I reassured him that we were just coming. My son and I then got into a really stupid argument about whose fault it was and I was so upset and I swore and then I heard a noise and realised I hadn't hung up and the phone was still on speakerphone. I was mortified! I just pressed the off button on my phone and couldn't look the teacher in the eye again.

Mornings are not my strong point!

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