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Leaving a job you enjoy for more money

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Anitawiglit12 · 01/07/2021 23:17

I work in a minimum wage role in a care home which I enjoy. I have grown very attached to the residents and I enjoy the actual work.sadly it’s minimum wage 24h a day 365 days a year. I also do some TA cover work which is minimum wage too. I do a 44 hour week in order to make it up to 21k per year but I don’t actually get that much because I don’t get paid in full if I’m off sick or on holiday.

I’ve got another interview tomorrow for a school based role on 24k actual salary, 37.5 hours.

Living on minimum wage is possible, but not easy. I am 30 and have a degree and a master’s, I feel a bit like I am selling myself short even though care work is an incredibly underpaid and demanding job. It’s a shame it’s so under valued in society.

I feel guilty though about leaving and I know I’d miss the residents a lot. Life isn’t all about money but it does help when you’re comfortable.

What would you do?

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PearPickingPorky · 01/07/2021 23:29

I'd take the better paid job.

Yes, money isn't the be all and end all. But, I think that's only after a certain point, ie when you're salary is above average. Below that, life is stressful.

Anitawiglit12 · 01/07/2021 23:32

Yeah, you’re right. We’re told to only spend 30% of our salary on rent, if that were my case I could only afford a house share on my own, luckily I share with my partner.

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autumnboys · 01/07/2021 23:35

Go for the other job. Good luck!

Anitawiglit12 · 01/07/2021 23:41

Thank you. I may not get it but I’ve applied for a few on that salary. I think 44 hours a week is too much as well.

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devastating · 01/07/2021 23:43

Definitely go for the other job. Also, you sound like a lovely person. Best of luck Smile.

Nannyamc · 01/07/2021 23:45

Please be kind to yourself and follow the dream. Life awaits you

Newchallenge · 01/07/2021 23:46

Go for the better job
You could always visit residents in some of your new-found spare time!

SparklyLeprechaun · 01/07/2021 23:47

Go for the other job. Don't even think in terms of how much you like the job, there are decent jobs out there that you might enjoy and don't pay a pittance. Good luck!

Anitawiglit12 · 02/07/2021 00:03

Thanks everyone for the encouragement. It’s helped me to make the decision.

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Newestname001 · 02/07/2021 00:17

Good luck @Anitawiglit12. Hope your interview goes well. Sounds like, if you are offered/accept it that you would could have a better quality of life too. The boring bit... don't forget to allocate a set amount to pay into an additional pension for your future financial security. 🌹

Anitawiglit12 · 02/07/2021 02:55

Thanks very much!

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Susannahmoody · 02/07/2021 03:12

Good luck Anita

Anitawiglit12 · 02/07/2021 06:03

Thank you!

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