To think it is to parent and not to help?

[RoseMartha]

Had a message from my exh, who said he will try and 'help' more.

I didnt reply but was thinking, 'Help! You dont help with your kids you parent them.' 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 No point me mentioning this with him as he will lose it with me.

He spends between 12-15 hours a week with the dc, not in one go. No nights.

He can see them more if he wants to, but every time I offer he says we will see. Then it never happens. 🙄 and i never know until the last minute when he wants to see them as he likes to string me along.

I'd message back saying you don't regard parenting your own children as helping as he's meant to be fifty percent responsible for them 🙄

If he calls don't answer.

Do you get on conparenting or is it strained?

Help with what? Parenting OUR children then turn the ringer off

YANBU op. My partner said his friend couldn't play football the other day as he was babysitting for Lisa. Lisa being his wife and mother to his child. Wtf.