Hi all,
NC for this one Incase it’s outing.
I arranged with friends to go for drinks tomorrow. Arranged a few weeks back and all said they were free so confirmed the date.
I had a few messages last night from people that they couldn’t make it - various reasons/excuses.
Another friend I was meant to drop a dress to today as I was lending her something to wear. I was in the area at the time she specified and I haven’t had a reply literally all day.
So now I feel she’s ghosting because she doesn’t want to say she isn’t coming. Only one friend is currently still up for going and it’s the friend I see a few times a week so although I enjoy their company, it won’t be anything special.
This happens every year when I try to arrange anything that’s remotely centred around me without sounding conceited. I’m always the one who arranges other peoples events or surprises and I have to organise my own birthday and no one will even show up.