Not sure if I'm being unreasonable so would like some opinions.
So currently my husband is stuck abroad
I'm working.
And I've got family members helping with school pick up and drop off.
My 3 year old goes to a nursery just for the morning sessions.
Yesterday when he picked her up the nursery worker- not her Key Worker- apparently had a real face on. She told her Uncle that she had hit another child. And as per usual when someone else picks up the kid you don't get the full story.
She also told him that the parents had complained about this.
So obviously he tells child we don't hit and came home.
He only told me today around 10. And again hes picked her up today. The didnt say anything today.
But there just seems something a bit off about the whole thing.
My daughter never hits other children. In the whole 6 months they've only said it once. And on asking her she had been pushed first and then pushed back.
Obviously it's not good to hit others and that's what we teach her.
At the start of the week I gave notice to the nursery. That she will be going to a different nursery starting September. Its connected to the Primary school her sister goes to, so much better for us.
I dont know who it was who told her Uncle but from his description it sound like the nursery manager who told him yesterday.
Her Uncle said he was first in line to pick up the kids- so how has another parent complained if they havnt even picked up the children yet?- unless they rang them at home and it was very severe violence with bleeding or something- but I think this is very unlikely.
This morning when I dropped her off at nursery the Manager was sat out and I felt as though she was avoiding my gaze and didnt make eye-contact.
Anyway now I'm worried that somehow the fact that I've decided to give notice is going to affect how they treat her.
Theres only a couple of weeks left so will see how it goes but was wondering on your thoughts. Is it worth speaking to them tomorrow. When I drop her off?