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Bullying in Primary school

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Heavensabove3005 · 01/07/2021 11:10

So my daughter is in her last year. Over the last month she has experienced some nastiness off two other children. We have tried to ignore it by then I had the parents have a go at me on the playground because they wanted to get the kids together which my daughter didn’t want to do. I started picking my daughter up earlier but it’s continued, dirty looks toward me and my daughter. Yesterday the child screaming in my daughters face. They have also had a go at another mum yesterday. I’m at a loss what to do, the head appeases them because they shout the loudest but I am disgusted in this behaviour and sick of holding my toinge. Do I kick up a stink or just think sod it only a few weeks left?

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Deadpoet1 · 01/07/2021 11:46

Write to the head and governors requesting a meeting. Read the school's anti bullying policy and take that with you. Even though it's just a couple if weeks left your daughter may be in secondary with these other children so it needs sorting now.
As for the mums, tell them where to go if they approach you again. Remember to smile. Nothing pisses people off more.

Dawninrealisation · 01/07/2021 11:55

For a peaceful life right now, I'd go with sod it, only a few weeks left.
However, it is very common for bullies to carry on and on and on until someone stands up to them. If this isn't sorted now, it might haunt you for a very long time.

Heavensabove3005 · 01/07/2021 12:08

So I’ve managed to get through to someone today. Who said that what I’m saying doesn’t tie in with how upset this other parent is.dear god. Did I mention she’s good friends with said parent? Luckily different high schools for these children.

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MummBraTheEverLeaking · 01/07/2021 12:22

If that someone isn't the head then go ahead with @deadpoet1 suggestion, in fact if it is I would still go ahead and get a paper trail they can't ignore. Mentioning the other parent being upset sounds like they're trying to twist it round like the bullying is coming from your end Shock No doubt they'll be on the phone to their mate too so don't be surprised if your daughter gets an accusation from them getting in there first.

Heavensabove3005 · 01/07/2021 12:23

I’ve rang back and asked for a call back from the head. I’m disgusted in the school.

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