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Feeling extremely fed up of narcissistic mother AGH

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FeelingVfrustrated · 30/06/2021 16:33

Just cannot fucking take it any more 😩

Anyone else had a mum who gets in a mood and creates a fucking awful vibe, because you yourself are just quiet/having a down day and she just assumes you’re in a mood with her? So she in turn creates this horrible atmosphere, being frosty herself. Tell me this is normal because I’m just at my wits end.

Not only this but I just can’t listen to her have conversations with people anymore, all she does is lie. About the most minor stuff, that doesn’t need lying about. She is also so two-faced. So many people worship the ground she walks on, and she’s so nice to their face then when they left she say stuff like “well that was a fucking waste of time”

Has anybody had a tricky min lkke this? How did you deal with it in the end? She’s the type that I’ll air a grievance and she will take it so personally that it just can’t get resolved. Sorry isn’t in her vocabulary so I’m wondering if NC is just the only route. Sighhhhhh

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FeelingVfrustrated · 30/06/2021 16:42

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Notfeelingsopeachyandkeennow · 30/06/2021 16:47

Sorry to hear this OP. I too have a tricky relationship with my mum and can recognise some of the behaviours you describe.

Would LC be an alternative before needing to consider NC? Flowers

Notfeelingsopeachyandkeennow · 30/06/2021 16:48

A long shot perhaps but could you perhaps book in for a fixed number of sessions for family therapy (just you and her)?

Mary46 · 30/06/2021 16:52

Hi op have it myself. Major hard work. Always about them. I visit keep it minimum. You cant change them. She wont hear of her being wrong.. I could go on lol

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