I know there have been other threads on this, just feel so much for their spouses and children and wondered if anyone else had had this happen to them?
I think they're disgusting, carrying on for goodness knows how long like that. The fact that they are already in a relationship immediately after telling their partners about the affair is just shameful.
It happened to me, though we had only been together 3 years and no children involved so nowhere near as bad.
A "friend" from work he'd known about a year. Got closer with her over the months and got mentionitis, but apparently it'd be "weird" if i met her.
Spent the night there and arrived back at 7am, lied to me about it for a week.
Was quite obviously going on for some time. I went to my parents for the weekend and came home to used condoms in the bin. The minute we were over, they were confirmed as in a relationship.
We lived together and I had to look for somewhere else, knowing he was inviting her round whilst I was at work etc.
The tart had the audacity to leave evidence of having been round.
I was only 23 and didn't know better, but when I finally saw sense a long time later I sent them each a scathing email, blocked them and moved on with my life. That was years ago and I think they're still together.
It's horrific, but you're better off without them. Has it happened to anyone else?