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To think the doctor can't keep telling me it's a dental problem and the dentist that it's an issue for the doctor?!

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Howaboutthisone · 27/06/2021 10:17

Surely they can't keep passing me to the other with no one actually investigating the problem?!
About a month ago I had an issue with my throat. It was a recurrence where I get a pea sized lump at the back of my throat (same site) and I phone for a dr appointment, am given an appointment with minor ailments nurse who tells me it will ease on its own and then I go back in a couple of days in agony with a raging infection. This time is was so bad they had to consult with the ENT dept in the hospital and I had to go there. Seen by three ent drs who think it's a retention cyst and gave me strong antibiotics and a promise for a follow up appointment in 3-4 weeks. Appointment came through for 6 weeks (in Covid times I thought I'd just go with that) So the appointment is now the week after next.
Last weekend I noticed on the Friday that the inside of my mouth was swollen. No pain. No redness. But all of the inside of my cheeks were swollen. Phoned out of hours, saw dr who gave me more of the strong antibiotics despite not being able to tell where the infection was. Told to go back to gp if it hadn't cleared or improved in a few days. Went back to the gp as no improvement (incidentally I take my last dose of co amoxiclav today and it still hasn't even improved one bit). They tried to palm me off on minor ailments again but I insisted on gp. GP told me that it looks normal. I pointed out that I'm 40 and that my mouth has never once looked like this and that every time I speak or eat I feel like I'm chewing on my face. So whilst it looks 'normal' it isn't for me. On my way out he suggested that I should see my dentist. So the lovely lady in the dentist fitted me in that morning. Dentist looked and told me that my teeth etc are all fine and that it isn't anything to do with the teeth and therefor I should go back to my doctor (as I expected to be honest as whilst it's in my mouth it's more the inside of my face iyswim)
I was a bit upset and phoned the gp to ask if I could have a blood work up. The receptionist there told me that that as it's something to do with my mouth it's nothing to do with them and that I need to go to my dentist 🤦🏼‍♀️
I finally got them to agree to the blood test after ending up breaking down crying in anger and frustration on the phone that they both are paying me off on each other and no one can be bothered to look into it. So now I'm waiting for my blood test. And my ENT follow up in the hope that they will take me seriously and at least look into why this is like it is. In the meantime, by then I'll have had a really swollen mouth for almost 3 weeks, being told it's normal when it's not for me!
Surely I'm not being unreasonable to think that the dentist/doctors pass the parcel isn't right. Has anyone else had this?
Thanks for making it to the end-didn't mean for it to be so long but didn't want to dripfeed!

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ShennaIsAPrawnCracker · 06/07/2021 22:42

I hope it went well Flowers

Howaboutthisone · 08/07/2021 06:38

Thank you!
I left the appointment feeling listened to and reassured. He examined me thoroughly, asked me about it and also looked at the photo diary I've kept of it. He wasn't concerned about the swelling but understood my need for an explanation of it. He believes that the swelling is down to the root problem which is my throat. It seems that when I had my tonsillectomy, not all tissue was taken. This is the tissue that is now getting infected and regrowing hence the worsening each time. I need to have another operation to removed the remaining tissue. There might be a bit of a wait as they have only restarted the ops due to cancer in ENT in our area and I'm so grateful to not be in that category as it has crossed my mind I might be. I am looking into having him do it privately but it will depend on cost and also how long the NHS lost actually is.
Thank you all!

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ShennaIsAPrawnCracker · 08/07/2021 22:39

Feels a hit odd to say this, but yay! Glad you've had some reassurance and answers.

Howaboutthisone · 09/07/2021 06:43

Thank you! I know- I feel the same. Feel relieved which is strange as I have to have an op 😆

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