As in bed sharing not sex.
He snores. That’s obviously really problematic as when we do share a bed I am awake for hours.
But if I’m honest it’s not just that.
I toss and turn before settling and I don’t feel I can do that when bed sharing. I like having the quilt wrapped around me. I don’t like it when I have to cough or they do and you worry about waking them up (or fart!) or wake up to use the toilet …
Is it really unreasonable to just prefer your own space of a night? I don’t know any other adults who do this but by the same token I just can’t see how I can share a bed and get eight hours a night.