So we had a few issues early on with DH being insecure about me going out on nights out and things. We had big rows about it early on and then had a really good talk and things improved a lot to the point where I felt we were okay. He had some trust issues which he'd brought from his previous relationship in which he'd been cheated on and he has never been controlling in any other aspect of our life and as things improved I thought we were okay but last night he said something which I didn't like.
I'm going out tomorrow for the first time in ages with some friends. Obviously it's been lockdown and I've also not long had a baby so I'm really looking forward to it.
A friend (female) has said I can stay at her house rather than get a taxi on my own home (I live outside of the area we are meeting in whilst everyone else lives there).
I mentioned this to DH and the first thing he said was 'No, I don't care what you do but you're not sleeping over, you belong here'
I was 
and basically said I'll do what I like thank you. But it's really pee'd me off and I just know now that if I stay he'll be in a mood. I know this is a particularly sore subject for him as this is what happened with his ex wife. She told him she was staying with a friend and then said friend informed him she actually wasn't and was with OM.
But we've been married years now and I have never given him any reason to not trust me. I appreciate past experiences can make you fearful but imo they are his issues to manage not for me to alter my behaviour to placate them.
So AIBU to just stay anyway?